The ear tests the words it hears just as the mouth distinguishes between foods.
Many a times the source of an argument is misinterpreted words, misheard sentences. What we hear and what we understand is way different from what it’s conveyed to us. Hearing and Listening aren’t the same, for listening we need to spend time focusing on the words said and ponder over an appropriate response. We do hear news everyday but we listen to a lecture, that’s the difference. Always be a good listener to any conversation before uttering words, many misunderstandings can be curbed right away. Have a great day. God bless you abundantly